New research from The University of California, Davis and Pennsylvania State University indicates that becoming more popular can actually increase a teen's risk of getting bullied rather than making them immune to attack. Researchers found, using 4200 high school students in North Carolina as subjects, that as kids climb the social rungs, they are more likely to bully and be bullied – or at least until they reach the top. The top 4 percent of the social elite were above the fray, the study found. These students weren't likely to be bullied, nor were they likely to bully others. "They have less incentive to be aggressive because they have nowhere else to climb," Professor Bob Faris wrote. "They have the luxury of being nice to everyone."
Faris also indicated that the important takeaway for parents is that they can’t assume that teenagers who seem relatively well adjusted and have a lot of friends are in the clear.This study is a reminder that it's worth checking in on them even though everything appears to be going along just fine. Another insight is that the best way to combat bullying, may be to teach kids that social rank doesn't matter, and fighting your way to the top while putting down others isn't worth it, Faris says.
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