If you are a parent and you aren’t comfortable with texting, it is time to get with the program. A new report says that teens are averaging more than 3,000 texts per month. That's six an hour. So what’s a parent to do? First, if for some reason the texting revolution has passed you by, you might seriously consider jumping onboard. Most parents find it is the preferred way to talk to their kids and eliminates a lot of hassles on both sides. That doesn’t mean you have to give your kids a phone with texting privileges. Only you know whether they are ready or not, but it’s so much better for you to practice now. Second, it you do go the texting route, make sure you get an unlimited text plan, or you may have some surprise bills. Third, make some rules about when texting is appropriate and stick to them and set the consequences for breaking them– both for you and your kids. If the rule is there is no texting during dinner, than that applies to everyone. Four, make it clear from the beginning that if you suspect they are texting improperly in any way – that includes sexting, cyberbullying , or just not being nice – that you reserve the right as a responsible parent to take a look at their messages. An appropriate punishment for texting infractions? Take their phone away for a week.
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