Homework As An Excuse

Most kids like to spend time online, and many parents and teachers worry about the time students spend at the keyboard. As teachers move to assigning homework that may require use of the Internet to access and complete assignments, kids have a perfect excuse for staying online. All they have to do is to tell you is, “I’m doing my homework,” when perhaps they’ve finished what was required an hour or so ago. This is just another way kids are finding to circumvent what we want them to do. The answer is parent and teacher communication so parents will be aware of assignments and teachers will be aware of how long students are taking to “do assignments” at home. Parents need to learn how to monitor their children’s online activities and how to find out what’s actually assigned.

Posting & Sending “Less Than Appropriate” Photos

Terry Darr, librarian at Loyola Blakefield, an all-boys high school in Baltimore has started sessions at her school that give students the chance to talk about decision-making when using technologies. The groups discussed what to do if someone asks you to take “a less than appropriate” photo to post online.  Many said they’d take the photo as the person asked, for decisions about using it were the responsibility of the other person.  Were they saying that they were hesitant to turn down a friend’s request even though they knew taking the photo was not a good idea? Another question tackled in the sessions was what to do if you receive a nude photo from a girl you know. Most said that they would not forward the photograph. They expressed confusion about what to do with the photo and why some girls think sending out photos like this is a good idea.  The librarian wondered if discussions would be different if the sessions were coed and how honesty would be affected. The sessions focused upon real-life situations and moral decisions that students face today but that they don’t often get the chance to discuss and think about.