Password Sharing Seen as An Act of Love

A recent New York Times article cites a new digital era custom – the expression of affection between young people by the sharing of passwords to email, Facebook, and other digital accounts. Those who were interviewed for the article expressed that they do know such digital alliances are risky, since some information could be used against them, but that this risk factor is “part of what makes the symbolism of the shared password so powerful.” The article likens the pressure to share passwords to that of having sex as a teen. While there is no indication of just how many teens seem to be doing this (likely only a tiny minority), experts say that it is the kind of symbolism that is almost sure to go awry. Bottom line: While telling some kids not to share their passwords will only make them want to do it even more, don’t give up. There are plenty of examples you can give them of why this may result in very painful consequences and is not just some old Mom-“ism.” Such a discussion can also give kids an excuse not to make the exchange. The old “My Mom would have cow” line is a great “out” for not giving into the pressure.